"Fuck my life"

Why is it when you like someone you seem to drop all plans to make things accommodate for the both of you? You give up your time when it is better for the other person, it sounds so endearing and sweet, but when that part in the relationship isn't mutual - you are the only one giving up that time, it becomes dumb and unfair. It's stupid ... it's like you have to play the game. Becoming too easy to reach just makes for dependency, becoming anti-social and an even better chance of becoming clingy. I am none of those.
On the contrary, if you become hard to reach, it is more intriguing, it makes desire...then again, if you are never available the person will move on.

Balance? What is the correct amount? Why can't all play fair?

I hate working on another person's schedule.
I also hate ambiguous texts and when the other party is non responsive.
But I like him a lot and I admire his schedule...